If you have read some literature or articles on dating advice, you will always come across the important topic of attraction.
Attraction is the driving force which makes a woman want you.
Even though many people believe attraction is based on the logic traits of what society calls attractive, it is a whole different thing.
Being attractive and attracting women are two different pairs of shoes.
Here’s an example to make it more clear to you:
A guy, who is tall, rich, handsome and who has a good job, is called by the majority of women out there an attractive guy. Yet, it doesn’t mean she feels attracted to him.
A woman can find one guy attractive, but be attracted to another one, who combines none of the traits she perceives as attractive.
Now why is that and what does it mean to you?
What a woman likes is a matter of her conscious. She can rationally agree that a guy is attractive, but this doesn’t mean that she feels the urge to be with him.
Attraction is an Emotion
It makes us desire someone no matter if our conscious mind agrees to it or not. It is selfish and follows its own logic.
The reason why is because it is triggered by our subconsicous, something we cannot control ourselves.
Even though being attractive is an advantage to men, it is not because it attracts women primarily, but rather because it draws attention towards them.
Although looks are a huge factor of attraction, this mostly only applies to when a man is attracted to a woman, but not the other way round. After having studied the dynamics between men and women for years, I have figured that it is mostly a man’s communication skills and his personality traits, which a woman’s subconscious picks up, and eventually makes her feel attracted to the man, whereas men primarily respond to a woman’s looks and sexuality.
So, even though it never harms to be attractive in order to draw the attention of a woman towards you, make sure you learn how to use your communication and how to develop your personality so you can attract women and eventually make them want you, even if you are not handsome, rich or from any logical point of view attractive.
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